Sometimes the most common touch is times more effective than talking, no matter how convincing and hot. So, what kind of gestures in which situations will be particularly effective?
If you want to admit to love
We have seen such a gesture many times in romantic films - he passes his hand over her cheek, and all - words are no longer needed. Then usually a passionate kiss follows. So what prevents you from doing so, with a gentle touch to his cheek, tell him these three treasured words? Nothing!
Why does this gesture work? Men have very sensitive skin (Life Secrets). The fact is that next to each hair follicle growing on his face (and they have much more hair on his face, you will agree), there are special sensors that react to touch. Well, and another touch of the person expresses a deep connection with the person at the emotional level.
If you need to apologize
If you are wrong (or he thinks so) and want to apologize, try to resort to the next secret. Sit down next to each other and after the phrase "Forgive me ..." put your hand on your knee, squeeze it lightly.
Do not think that such a gesture is a fawning, no! Simply, while the man is angry, and you try to touch the hand or cheek, this gesture will be received irritatedly. And your knees are a neutral place. In addition, you slightly bend, laying your hand, which he will subconsciously take as obedience. Plus words. Such a gesture will show him that you really sincerely regret what happened.
If you need his help
Stretch out his arms, turning his palms up, and let him cover them with his palms. This gesture means that you need help, attention or sympathy.
The male subconscious recognizes your gesture as a search for security because the palms of the hands mean a request to help. A man will feel his masculine strength if you do so, and he will necessarily want to take care of you and help you.
If the conflict is brewing
You need to reassure your loved one, but the words are as bad as not? Just touch his shoulder, if you do not want to bring it to the "boiling" state! The gesture should in no case be timid! Only clarity and confidence! Hold your shoulder for a few seconds and take your hand away. This gesture is analogous to the "pause" button in his brain.
Shoulders - one of the most protected parts of the male body. They have a lot of muscles that protect the shoulders. And your touch will show him that you are together, and at the same time will slow down his nervousness and anger. If you touch the shoulder, thereby emphasizing the strength of your chosen one, he will understand that he is not in danger and that together you will find a way out of the situation.
If you want to persuade him to do something, and he is against it
Take his hands in yours and fold them in a prayerful position so that his hands are inside of you.
This is a coaxing gesture. Never noticed that in important negotiations, politicians often use it? Take a closer look! And adding tactile contact to such a gesture, and so in such a way that the man is in a subordinate position, you will add even more credibility to your request. But notice that in such a gesture there is no overt submission of a man, which he will not tolerate ever! That's how we use our female tricks!
If you relax
Swipe gently along the hairline or, lightly touching, touch the neck. Loss his hair, go down to the neck and massage it lightly, and again to the hair.
Playing with hair gives a man a feeling of comfort and your care. This gesture will clearly show him that you have mutual affection. A gentle massage of the neck after a day of work will help him relax and feel pacification next to you. It is very important that these feelings will be associated with your presence and touch!
If you want to tell him pleasant words
Want to tell him that he is the best and most unique, beloved and sexy? You do not need to talk, just slap it on the ass (or rather, on the buttock).
Men, such a slap in a soft place is considered a non-verbal way to say that he is super. Such gesture expresses your admiration and even support.
If you have a playful mood
Do you have a much more tempting plan than watching TV before going to bed? Great! Just slide the palm over his thigh, on the inside, on the verge of touching the intimate places. The skin on the inner side of the thigh is very sensitive and susceptible to weasels. It is here that the nerve endings associated with his genitals are located. After such a touch, instantly ignited your man, you are provided with a passionate replacement of the TV!
Gestures and touches help us not only to bring something to the partner but also to understand his desires and feelings. This is due to his reaction to our touch.
If you feel a shiver in his lap at your apologies, then he will not take your words because of a strong nervous excitement. It is better to make a short pause. But as soon as he changes the position of the body and turns to you, even slightly, you can safely continue. Better yet, pat his other knee.
But do not wait until he turns his whole body towards you. It is only necessary to pay attention to his feet. Are the socks turned in your direction? Excellent! He is ready to talk and is not too angry, no matter how hard he tries to show the opposite.
Well, if there is no reaction to your gesture, wait. He is completely focused on his anger. He needs time to open up.
The most important thing in communication with the help of gestures is attention! Watching how he reacts to this or that touch, you will learn to quickly understand the language of his body. And dreams of the ability to read thoughts will disappear by themselves.
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